How can I find out where someone is burried via public records or another public source?

I know someon who died last month and would like to visit thier grave, but dont want to upset her family and firends unnecessarily by asking where it is. How can I find out?How can I find out where someone is burried via public records or another public source?
Possibly findagrave.com.
local newspapers would be about it unless you know someone else that attended the funeral, there are no other official records that would contain that information.How can I find out where someone is burried via public records or another public source?
lexis nexis.How can I find out where someone is burried via public records or another public source?
that information is not usualy available unless the person was famous, although if you know what funeral home; they usualy have a website where you can search for the person